Testing each month was brutal. Youre so excited to do a pregnancy test, but if you test too soon, you end up in this awful limbo where you still have hope, but realistically it's not likely. Towards the end we would only test once 14 days post ovulation.
Also, I didn't realize how high miscarriage rates are (~30%)!
We're in our early 30s and wish we started sooner because it will be pretty tight to have more than 3 kids