I disagree. Your points aren't necessarily wrong, but they ignore one big factor. Twitter
chooses what content to promote to people.
I could use Twitter quite happily not knowing about the latest "scandal" in, say, the knitting world. But Twitter actively promotes that content to me - either with the "trending" sidebar or by showing me content that it thinks will increase my engagement.
That is a technical problem. How do you surface engaging content without also surfacing harmful / polarising / abusive content?
If a specific Tweet got a million likes, a "neutral" algorithm might choose to promote it. But unless that algorithm knows that the Tweet is deliberately inflammatory, it can't choose to de-prioritise it.
So, yes, there is a problem with human nature. But it is being exacerbated by deliberate technical and policy choices.