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Re: Bumble releases open-source A.I. feature to help combat unsolicited nudes

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Post by ilikecakeandpie » Wed, Oct 26, 2022, 8:55 PM UTC

benj111 wrote: post #228

ilikecakeandpie wrote: post #217

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It is always unsolicited until it is reasonably, directly solicited

Right but then you're making 'reasonably' and 'directly' do a lot of heavy lifting. And what does directly even mean in this context? The standards for initiating sex don't require a sit down conversation as to what each party is agreeing to. So why should nude sending be held to a different standard?

The context for this is talking to a person on a dating app where you haven't met them personally. In that case, assuming you've never met them, I think it's inappropriate to send an explicit photo/video unless they straight up ask to see it.

"The standards for initiating sex don't require a sit down conversation as to what each party is agreeing to."

This attitude leads to women having sex/relations they aren't super comfortable doing. It's not a mood killer if you take a beat just to make sure you're on the same page with expectations and it takes a lot less time than locating, opening, and putting on a condom.

You stated in a different comment that your gf tells you off and it kills the mood if you ask to move to the bedroom or having sex while impaired, but surely you realize that's a totally different situation than you meeting up with someone from a dating app, right? Spontaneously acting with someone you know and with who you have built trust is waaaaaay different than sending an unsolicited nude or making advances on someone who is a little more than a stranger.

Re: Bumble releases open-source A.I. feature to help combat unsolicited nudes

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Post by 1letterunixname » Thu, Oct 27, 2022, 6:07 AM UTC

sweetheart wrote: post #179

1letterunixname wrote: post #139

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That's hilarious. I would take that as a sign the platform is as thoughtful with arbitrary enforcement (without review) and that it's users aren't much sharper.

Why do you take it to mean that people who use a dating app are somewhat dumb? I can’t understand how you’d think that from Tinder misclassifying a photo

Firstly, they invited themselves being deep faked in perpetuity. The average consumer who posts their face online doesn't understand the gravity, implications, and permanence that that entails... like their future kids and grandkids stumbling on their dating life, being deep faked in porn, appearing in chumbox image recycling on CNN or (insert ads-heavy site here), social media phantom profile stuffing, and the rights related to company acquisitions. That's just for starters.

Anyone who can't go outside, share hobbies with other humans in person, or connect with people organically probably isn't worth meeting. Dating websites are bursting with the lazy, the truculent, the undesirable, the unpleasant, and the under-socialized. To be fair, there haven't been so many (%) single and "childfree" (old-age misery-in-waiting) people in all of human history. I blame the myriad of distractions: first TV, video games, then VHS (porn), the internet, and finally smartphones. Now, combinations of all these together manifest as digital hallucinations consume the lion's share of people's attention and lives while they miss-out on genuine connections in the moment sharing something real.

Re: Bumble releases open-source A.I. feature to help combat unsolicited nudes

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Post by Kiro » Thu, Oct 27, 2022, 7:12 AM UTC

benj111 wrote: post #250

Kiro wrote: post #249

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All of them if you want to be sure, which you should. Update your obsolete and outdated view on consent.

Should I also breathalyse my girlfriend if she gets drunk and horny? She tells me off if I suggest going to bed to have sex because it kills the mood. So what? Am I to give up sex because our views on consent don't match up with your views? Have you ever actually been in a relationship? Or do you just have an aversion to sponteniety?

Wow, disgusting comment. I have no interest in discussing this with a rape apologist. Good bye and I hope you come to realize how ancient your views on equality are.

Re: Bumble releases open-source A.I. feature to help combat unsolicited nudes

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Post by sweetheart » Fri, Oct 28, 2022, 3:43 PM UTC

1letterunixname wrote: post #252

sweetheart wrote: post #179

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Why do you take it to mean that people who use a dating app are somewhat dumb? I can’t understand how you’d think that from Tinder misclassifying a photo

Firstly, they invited themselves being deep faked in perpetuity. The average consumer who posts their face online doesn't understand the gravity, implications, and permanence that that entails... like their future kids and grandkids stumbling on their dating life, being deep faked in porn, appearing in chumbox image recycling on CNN or (insert ads-heavy site here), social media phantom profile stuffing, and the right…

Yikes! I can't relate at all to your world view. That sounds stressful.

Re: Bumble releases open-source A.I. feature to help combat unsolicited nudes

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Post by hombre_fatal » Sat, Nov 05, 2022, 3:47 PM UTC

DarkWiiPlayer wrote: post #236

hombre_fatal wrote: post #211

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I imagine you’re a guy thinking about how you don’t mind a free pic of some sweet leche carriers landing in your inbox, but the only women who send unsolicited nudes are OnlyFans spammers.

Surprisingly enough, you're wrong with nearly every single assumption you made in your comment, starting as far back as with me not even using any dating apps.

Fair enough. Was the “nearly” because you are indeed an appreciator of some sweet mommy milkers and that’s the one I got right, at least?