> I feel like some folks downplay the amount of engineering that goes into the iPhone,
There's a huge amount of engineering that goes into making cars as well, but independent mechanic can and do thankfully exist.
The automobile market is going a similar direction to Apple and it's considered a bad thing by many.
Apple do not want to sell you spare parts if they can sell you a new yearly model phone instead. Imagine how awful it would be if you're forced to buy a new car when the propriety tires get a puncture and it's a discontinued model.
"Well this is already happens, besides I never lifted a finger to fix anything in my life" - yes, but it's not a good thing to make this the status quo.
People need to have the freedom to get cheaper parts and / or better services from other places. Otherwise we're all chained to Apple and not lifting our own fingers.
I don't know why this doesn't make sense to people, except for cases where people believe the hype of little old ladies blowing themselves up because they tried to replace batteries.