I will take the OP's story at face value, but I think a common theme in these sort of posts is the "Stripe not happy with my business model" angle which typically does not actually include any details about the business model. For example, a few weeks ago the founder of Tailwind tweeted [0] about how Stripe had shut down their account when they were set to launch the Tailwind Job Board, despite many other job boards…
Stripe reactivated the Tailwind account the same day, which means something at Stripe was broken in that case. How is "coaching" an obvious gray area?
Just like here. We have those "Stripe shut me down" posts on HN regularly.
Oh look! 49 days ago: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=32263421