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What job prospects would your kids have, and would it even have been possible for you to start your career if you lived in the area you are planning to move to for the critical years (high school, university, first few years entering your field, etc.)? If the answer to any of these questions is no, then you have your answer to why property prices near the cities aren't ever going to match the level of rural propertie…
Programming jobs that are remote. I personally predict building homes will become a thing - as we reach 600k typical home sales level. We will find people building homes for 200k and selling them for 400k profit. The math is starting to make programming jobs not attractive to me at least. Do 1 per year.
If people looked at this honestly, they would have to admit that relocating from a city into a rural area for the explicit purpose of raising kids is effectively taking a gamble on what thing might look like in the future.