I know that taste in comedy is seasonal (yes, there were a people in a time that thought vaudeville was the cat's pajamas), but has anyone ever greeted a pun with anything other than a pained sigh?
Puns aren't to make people laugh, the pained sigh is the point. It's schadenfreude for the person making the pun.
Nah, if it is a joke at their own expense then it is "self deprecating humor", something which is definitely designed to get a laugh. Humiliation fetish, maybe? Obviously nothing is funny past a certain point of deconstruction... especially if you find yourself defending the distinguishing difference of the "meta". Just stop making puns, easy.