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You're inventing things like "judging and chastising" - they do not appear to be present in the original text. Mischaracterisation is a bad idea.
Let me quote the text for what I consider "judging" (in the sense of making a presumptuous claim about or characterization of a person or group): > What is even worse is that the CL community tacitly accepts [the behavior of the person I am arguing with] as normal behavior. This is making a judgment about what behavior "the CL community" accepts. (Unless you believe "tacit" includes anybody in the world who doesn't p…
This is in no-one's dictionary "chastising" (random dictionary plucked from search):
> chastising (Entry 1 of 2) inflicting, involving, or serving as punishment
As for "judging" - this seems proportionate. E.g. while I think your judgment is poor when you use these words, I don't think a valid criticism of your comment is that you are "judging" anything. By this definition, almost everything anyone says is "judging".