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> They own a Mercedes, BMW, or Mazda RX-8. I'm not trying to be glib, but what quality of a person or partner were you looking to assess with this measurement? Asking because I've never thought to consider the car a person drives as part of evaluating a potential partnership. I guess what I'm trying to land on is how you encountered and partnered with people who did as you described multiple times, and I'm leaning to…
I drive a 20 year old middle-class car. I drive it because it's been reliable and fuel-efficient, and I have no reason to replace it. GP would judge me as financially unsuccessful and not pay me any mind if I needed a problem solved. GP has been played by these "mercedes having" people and GP's own pre-conceived immature notions about status-signaling.
If anything, the data makes me biased against people with nice cars. I expected most of the outrage to be from those who bought expensive cars.
Many of the relatively successful ones have been partners who owned no cars, though one guy has a very nice MPV.