The high school teacher in the link is a B.S. in math education. They're usually reflexive Platonists, believing that math is out there, and we merely discover it. This is a result of the teaching of undergrad math as essentially a series of completed works, with little history attached to it. This teacher probably hasn't thought critically about why, say, 1/x^2 = x^(-2). By contrast, a mathematician has a Ph.D. in m…
Math is out there. I don't understand how anyone can say that the Mandelbrot set was created or is formed from arbitrary axioms. It was discovered full stop.
To your main point: are irrational numbers, say, "out there"? If so, where?
Until a few centuries ago it was mathematical standard practice to fudge 1/2 as 25/49 when taking it's square root. But then mathematicians invented (some would argue) the notion of an irrational, because it was, well... useful.
There are real metaphysical questions here; there have been since the greeks started reaching the limits of a purely geometric (read physical) understanding of math.