I know this may be sacrilege to some, but: Consider moving to a less desirable place if you can. I got priced out of my hometown of Seattle. So I moved to a small town in rural Oregon and I couldn't be happier. The combination of spending comparatively little on housing + a tech salary is hard to beat. I have my own shop! It feels like freedom, even if it comes at the cost of being near my extended family.
It's really great for a lot of folks but not without its drawbacks. Some people need access to 'tier-2' or higher cities for things like specialized medical care or educational assistance. I think some people moving away from the urbs are going to get a shock when they see what incentives will arise because of global warming. Rising energy costs may force you back to a city in the next decade or two. That said, I'm j…
I'm not sure that energy costs are necessarily higher in the country, but I suppose it depends on the climate and the house itself. In my case, I'm going down the solar/hydro route and plan to be off-grid at some point.
Climate change is a huge issue, though. Drought and wildfire are existential threats to my current way of life.