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The tendency exists for sure, but there is nothing supporting the claim that it’s impossible . The Amish themselves are an example. Also there are other eco villages and communities that have managed.
It seems like they have chosen to abstain from capitalism and have been allowed to exist because they don’t represent a threat to the capitalist order. Also, by definition, if collective choices are being made about the use of technology, then it’s not capitalism.
Collective choices get made within capitalism all the time. Corporations, clubs, cooperatives, unions, associations, etc, cities, counties, countries, etc, are all legally established collective choice making groups. There is also nothing preventing people from forming their own groups by free association.