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The term came from https://www.thecoddling.com/ but here I refer to a specific aspect: Suppose your reaction to discomfort is to retreat or isolate yourself from it. Having done so you will find that your calibration of comfort has changed and things you previously found at the fringe but normal now became clearly uncomfortable. If you repeat this process several times you will find that the field of acceptable thing…
> Suppose your reaction to discomfort is to retreat or isolate yourself from it. Why wouldn't that be my reaction? Seems a pretty normal reaction to most discomfort. I lean into discomfort only when necessary and avoid it otherwise at all costs, that strategy has gotten me pretty far in my half+ century. But even if we assume the proposition that people somehow become more withdrawn as they withdraw... what's the dow…
That is a fairly common reaction. But accepting discomfort, without aversion to it, is powerful.