Maintainers with attitudes like this are why we can't have nice things:
https://drewdevault.com/2017/10/26/Fuck-you-nvidia.html
Sadly, the OSS driver doesn't support the 4k monitors I use for work well enough to actually use day to day. So my option is to use an "evil" but very stable driver and no wayland to do my job and get paid, or not.