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This would be a neat reinforcement learning project. > Some places the drivers are so polite to the point it really makes things dangerous I've known people like this, who will approach a 4-way intersection and stop even when they don't have a stop sign and the perpendicular street does.
Places where I've seen it, people who have the right of way take that to mean they get to play "traffic cop". E.g., at a 4-way stop the "extra polite" person who gets there first, instead of going through the intersection first, waits and waves the person who does not have the right of way to go through first, which makes that person (and everyone else) confused, and then causes a lot of slowdown, frustration, etc. O…
if you have the right of way, and you do not take the right of way, in most cases you are effectively disobeying traffic rules and disrupting the flow of traffic.