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I am using two Ikea Skurup lamps ( https://www.ikea.com/pl/pl/p/skurup-lampa-stolowa-kinkiet-go... ) directly above and in front of my monitors, just outside of reach of webcam. Soft lighting is a result of geometry. You can use very huge source far away from you or smaller but very close. You also need to pay attention to how the light is scattered and that the direct light is not shining on your face. I have asked…
4x 5W LED isn't really a lot of light, especially if you are diffusing it. If your webcam can work with that, it's not that bad :) Edit: I just read your comment again and realized that you are putting the light really close to your face. I guess that's a way to get away with low power lights.
I am not a model and am not used to have such bright light source so close to my face. I had to attenuate it because then it is just too uncomfortable but also to match light level on my face with that of the background.