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> Eat less" is the correct advice for weight less just like "don't drink" is for alcoholics and "don't think of him" is for someone going through a breakup. It's just basically useless advice totally lacking empathy. People are different. They have different bodies, different psychological dispositions, different experiences, etc. None of what you described changes the example solutions you gave. An alcoholic does ne…
> empathy doesn't cure being overweight or addiction No, but it would prevent a lot of insensitive, boneheaded forum posts. EDIT: Wasn't trying to suggest your post was insensitive or boneheaded.
Maybe it wasn't, but I think your original sentiment wasn't far off from my reaction to the same OP.
While I haven't struggled all that much with my weight, I know people who have. One of the most important things for weight loss (and anything else for that matter, up to and including break ups, as was in the original example) is support networks. I learned that lesson rather harshly when I went through a really ugly break up earlier this year.
Humans are social creatures, after all, and I can't fault you for your original response.
We need others around us who are a positive influence.