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East Asian family in different parts of Texas are California expats and love it.
Yeah, it's not a universal thing¹ but the short version is that one of my friends was told how he was "one of the good guys" and not the kind of immigrant they hate. And another was in sales in industrial manufacturing and there was a lot of misogyny and low-grade racism there. They're in WA now so and much happier. ¹ the "isn't happening to me" thing is sort of analogous to "works on my machine". Because of the rang…
It's fine to prefer living in one culture over another, which is exactly what both your friend and the people they complained about are doing.