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I think you missed the parent's point. I read it as, "if you get kicked out of every restaurant on the planet, it might be your fault." Of course there are protections for certain classes of people based on their attributes or fundamentals, but society can call your bullshit out.
This is hollow logic. If I say someone is punished unfairly, it's probably because they deserved it? Maybe you should tell that to a rape victim some time.
Someone is comparing social shaming for hate speech and lies and defamation - to someone getting physically raped.
So someone who willfully, repeatedly, taunts murder victims' families, spreads lies and conspiracy theories, and feeds off the attention of the mentally ill - getting taken off private platforms that not only host his content for free, but earn him money:
Is the same as telling a woman she somehow deserves getting raped.
Grow the fuck up.