Right now, I'd say become familiar with the /r/hackintosh subreddit and it's accompanying Discord. You can suss together a "golden" build there.
I specifically recommending avoiding anything on tonymacx86 across the board. One, their methods involve a lot of ill-advised hacks and two, their hardware builds often lag and are specced with the aforementioned hacks in mind.
The tl;dr version of parts selection:
- Get a non-oddball Intel CPU, such as a 9700K or whatever,
- An AMD GPU (an TX 580 or 5700XT),
- A Z370 or Z390 motherboard from a reputable manufacturer, such as ASUS or Gigabyte.
- A fast NVMe SSD, because that's what macOS expects these days.
- For AirDrop and certain other macOS features, you'll need a well-supported BT/wifi card.
When I built my system, I specced an 8700K, an ASUS Z390-I Gaming, a Sapphire RX 580 Nitro+, and a Samsung 970 EVO Plus SSD. I had to swap out the mini-m.2 intel-based wifi card from the motherboard and installed a Dell DW1560 and that was a little annoying, ut it's a one-and-done thing. And dang has my system worked great.