The credibility of the article is undermined by hyperbolic statements such as, "For a lot of children, when they’re 8 years old, it’s too late. If your parents aren’t engaged in the education system, in 10 years you’ll be competing in the labor market against people whose parents sent them to violin lessons and summer programs in the Dominican Republic. There’s inequality of opportunity." It's too late for "a lot of…
That said, it’s simpler than the example they gave. Some well-established examples:
- Did you read to your child from a young age? Bonus points if you did it in an “interactive” way.
- Did you engage with your children in dialogue using more or less proper speech (i.e., not baby talk). Ideally this is in a wide range of topics and with different types of language (e.g., description, narration, etc.). Ideally with some modeling of good language as well.
- Did/do you review your child’s homework with them? Ideally, did/do you sit with them quite a bit and review study strategies, time management, etc.?
- Do you constantly have new sources of learning available to your kids, and do you encourage them to use them (ideally by engaging with said materials with them)?
- Ideal but optional, do you try to give your children a wide range of experiences. Simple examples are field trips, intro to various sports, intro to various arts, etc.? The article characterizes this with very high end examples, but they can be done cheaply.
The parents who do these things give their children a huge advantage in life.
Some folks on HN may be asking something along the lines of “um, isn’t that what pretty much all parents do?” The answer is largely no.
A common (perhaps close to median) example of poor parental engagement in the education environment:
- Child is never read to... ever. Parent may not be so good at reading.
- Child rarely spoken to, except via commands. Household mentality is that children are meant to be seen and not heard.
- Child largely left alone to keep themselves entertained on their own in a resource-poor environment.
- Child is never helped with homework. Never encouraged to learn for the sake of learning. School is often disparaged, and doing well in school may entail being abused by family members and/or peers.
- Child never leaves their neighborhood, much less their town, state, or country. Much of what is seen on TV that is supposed to be a caricature of modern life is largely or completely unrelatable to the child’s own environment.
- Things like going to anything cultural that is oriented towards children is non-existent. No children’s museum, no children’s theater or orchestra. Sports will be whatever (if anything) is played locally.
These folks have an uphill battle in terms of fighting inequality.
If you want to do something to counter the second example, support Headstart programs financially and politically. These programs have proven results, but somehow find themselves consistently compromised in terms of funding. These programs are low-hanging fruit for easy wins.