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> Isn't it rather convenient to convince yourself that everyone in your outgroup is intolerant totalitarians That's a pretty extreme strawman. I disagree with lots of outgroups, and I only call a couple of them totalitarians. If someone hates all of the outgroup, they are almost certainly hypocritical and lying to themselves about being tolerant. If someone hates none of the outgroup, we can agree they're virtuous an…
I think we have a disagreement on the definition of the term "outgroup". The article I linked goes into more detail, but I'd say that an outgroup is defined by being the group that you hate, not necessarily just those who are different from you in some way. It doesn't make sense to talk about what percentage of them you hate when it's defined as being the people that you hate. There's no test to determine exactly wha…
The paradox of tolerance is not particularly difficult to deal with. You prioritize the preservation of as much tolerance as possible. If someone is trying to reduce the levels of tolerance in the world by a large amount, it's important to fight them, even if it means minor short term intolerance. And even then you tolerate them in all other ways.