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With a 2hr commute.
meh, if you don't have kids, $125K is plenty to live in a so so part of sunnyvale or mountain view (which is totally safe, just your apartment will be built in the '60s to working class standards, which isn't as bad as it sounds; the weather here means that having flimsy and poorly-insulated housing isn't as big of a deal as it would be otherwise.) I mean, you won't be buying right now, but you will be able to save m…
Most adults do have kids, though. It's unreasonable to expect that one will not have kids, seeing how we're all here because our parents were in a position to have kids. So I chose to live elsewhere instead.