I agree with a lot of this. I took a photography class in college and learned more on a borrowed old 35mm taking and developing black and whites than anything I have used since. People (myself included) tend to focus way too much on the gear, but when you are starting out go way cheap so you can get a feel for what you like to shoot and where your gear might be limiting you. Then after you go through that process make a more informed decision about what system you want to invest in. Definitely get you a zoom and a prime lens though as stated above.
I highly recommend taking a class in person. It really is the best bang for your buck. After that I think the best way to learn is just getting out there and taking shots. Get away from the gear reviews and spend that time practicing . Find out what you like and what you don't. Really its about you enjoying your own shots not trying to meet someone else's arbitrary standard of what makes a shot good enough.
Personally, I now shoot mirrorless. My first DSLR was an Olympus E-520 which served me very well. I reached a point where I was going to have to invest in more lenses, but Olympus had switched to micro 4/3 mirrorless and I was hesitant to invest in a system without a clear upgrade path. I then upgraded to a Pentax k-70 which was a decent camera, but I had so many focus issues with it I quickly sold it and now I've made the plunge into the Sony mirrorless system and plan on staying there and investing in it. Its a joy to shoot.
Finally, remember most of the greatest photographers in history had less capable cameras than the one you will have in your hand.