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I was in SF for the last WWDC, mostly to see and visit these people I keep hearing about. But I couldn’t for the life of me figure out where they were or how to talk to them. I went to WWDC, a couple of meetups, the Computer History Museum, walked through Stanford, ate hummus in Palo Alto, took only public transport or shared Lyft rides. But other than a chance meeting with the CEO of Mode Analytics in one can ride t…

I would scout specific meetups of interest on Meetup.com before you go next time. You can definitely find several good ones in the same week in SF. Besides that it helps to be around other similar people, but I wouldn't necessarily spend my day in Philz / Ritual / Sightglass / Four Barrel / a co-working space if the trip was for vacation. I came to SF for a pre-accelerator once that brought a similar crowd. Staying i…

Do the interesting people really come to meetups? Almost all the tech ones seem like glorified networking or recruitment watering holes.

I'd love to hang out with chill tech folks à la Homebrew Computer Club, but I get the feeling that kind of thing doesn't really exist anymore. Everyone is too busy peddling their wares.

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One thing I'd love to add is that is to make friends with people: People who are older than you, people that don't do stuff you do, people with radically different ideas and lifestyles, people in different countries/cultural backgrounds, people who are successful and unsuccessful.

If it is possible, you should find ways to talk to people you adore. Many people will spend the time to talk back to you. They will be the fuel in your life when you need advice, help, inspirations.

If you're a person in STEM, you should listen carefully to/date people studying arts, literature, social studies, education, politics... Never ever look them down as not as smart as you are. Think of people who don't think the way you do as being different rather than inferior to you. This is easier said then done, if you have a good job and in general, probably have a higher position in the food chain compared to them.

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One thing that I didn't do at that age and very much regret is to be really conscious of being healthy and physically fit. That's the right time to learn what you should and shouldn't put in your body, and how to be constantly active. There's a million different ways to accomplish that but it's important to find one. People at that age often don't really understand how closely linked physical fitness and mental healt…

I am in the same boat. And the damned thing is it's not that hard to do right by your physical health with moderate amounts of exercise and some self-discipline with meals and alcohol.

> it's not that hard

Yes, that's the greatest component of my regret. I cannot even make the excuse of "it was so hard, and I was focusing on other things".

I started weightlifting at age 40. I never seriously exercised or did sports regularly before. After one year of exercising 30 minutes a day, I am in a better physical shape than ever before. Those 30 minutes a day are totally worth it. And I regret not doing it twenty-five years ago, when I had much more free time than today.

Why did I even think it would be hard?

Seems to me that most people are bad at giving "80/20" advice -- an advice that is not literally best in the world, but is close enough to the best, and it easy to understand and remember. People often make things sound much more complicated than they are; for example there are dozen of exercise methods, and everyone says their own method is the best, and doing any other method is just a stupid way to hurt yourself. It all you have is contradictory advice of this type, it doesn't sound encouraging. Then some people say "well, it's a science, you have to study it", but I don't have extra 5 years of life to research exercise, then 5 more years to research nutrition, 5 more years to research finance, etc. for each important aspect of life.

(Then there is another line of useless advice, which is "just do what feels natural". Well, what feels natural for me is using internet all day long, and not exercise. Because that's what I have been doing most of my life. And of course, my natural shape is fat. But this is all because "feels natural" simply means "your habits". If you have good habits, following them is a good advice. But if you have bad habits, it is a harmful advice.)

If I tried to give advice to younger people, I would probably just give them one book per topic to read. "Convict conditioning" for exercise. "How not to die" for nutrition. "Early retirement extreme" for financial planning. I would have to think longer for books on other topics; perhaps some topics do not have the right kind of book. (The right kind = one you can read without much previous knowledge in the area; and which will give you advice that is maybe not perfect, but pretty good and not actively harmful.) I believe that sending these three books by a time machine to a 15 years old me would have dramatically improved my life.

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> payday loan provider probably isn’t deluding themselves about making an impact Having worked at a YC-backed alternative to payday lender ( https://www.//lendup.com ) and having spent a lot of the time in the call center listening to our customers, I'd suggest that a lender to folks without access to credit can have much more impact than you could possibly imagine. Being able to instantly inject $500 into the bank a…

>Having worked at a YC-backed alternative to payday lender ( https://www.//lendup.com ) and having spent a lot of the time in the call center listening to our customers, I'd suggest that a lender to folks without access to credit can have much more impact than you could possibly imagine. Being able to instantly inject $500 into the bank account of someone that needed it for a car repair or they'd lose their job when…

You clearly don't understand how LendUp works, so I'll just leave it at that.

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> payday loan provider probably isn’t deluding themselves about making an impact Having worked at a YC-backed alternative to payday lender ( https://www.//lendup.com ) and having spent a lot of the time in the call center listening to our customers, I'd suggest that a lender to folks without access to credit can have much more impact than you could possibly imagine. Being able to instantly inject $500 into the bank a…

To translate what was just said: payday lenders do , in fact, delude themsleves into thinking they are making an impact. It’s always the same material about “helping people in their time of need”. But the point isn’t about the immediate impact on people’s lives at the moment of funding ... rather the longer impact during the time that they will hold the debt, and the high interest cost to those who can afford it leas…

Lending to subprime borrowers is hard, because there's high default. Most payday lenders solve for that by having those that don't pay enter into a cycle of more and more loans that compounds.

You know what LendUp does if a customer doesn't pay? It just stops, and tries to get you to pay back the original loan. No more compounding.

That's a big difference. I you think charging $30 total interest for an instant $200 loan to someone with bad/no credit is evil and doesn't make a difference, you probably don't understand the realities of what people would have to do if LendUp weren't there.

LendUp is run legally as a licensed lender in California. The shady legal structures in native american nations is what they're fighting. I'm damn proud to have spent a couple of years trying to solve it.

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#186

One thing I'd love to add is that is to make friends with people: People who are older than you, people that don't do stuff you do, people with radically different ideas and lifestyles, people in different countries/cultural backgrounds, people who are successful and unsuccessful. If it is possible, you should find ways to talk to people you adore. Many people will spend the time to talk back to you. They will be the…

> If it is possible, you should find ways to talk to people you adore.

This. I was often surprised to find out that a famous person whom I admire is actually a very nice person, replies to my e-mails, and sometimes even agrees to meet and talk in person. Sometimes you may even be able to help them with something, and that feels really awesome.

> you should listen carefully to/date people studying arts, literature, social studies, education, politics...

But you should always listen to more than one person in each category, and compare what they said.

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Health is fleeting. Human life is short and brutal, so eat away while sitting on your lazy arse, I say.

It's pretty much a self fulfilling prophecy, yes.

As Aristotle said everything in moderation including cigars and pizza.

Going into a full blown mega health nut phase is not very helpful either because the end result is not going to be pretty anyways.

Now if/when we start making serious life extension progress beyond 120 years with high quality of life then we can start talking.

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I wish someone would write a useful version of this for the question “what should I do to make the most of my life when my family is poor or somehow less fortunate?” A lot of this would still apply but there’s a huge percentage of the population that has to deal with major difficulties in life before they can heed the kind of advice Patrick offers.

I come from a considerably poorer background than you based on your other posts, poorer than most, with birth defects that have caused me constant problems and... I could add a bunch of things to this list but it's quite accurate, I'm just past 30 now and by being poor, smart, open, hardworking and going where the energy/money is you end up ticking all of these boxes. You'll end up more closely identifying with first…

I haven't been in such situation, but my good friends was, and what he did fits what you wrote:

He grew up in a city with 50% unemployment. After he realized he has no future there, he left. Just bought a ticket to a larger city, and then applied to companies there until he found one that took him. (His friends from the original city keep meeting in local pubs and dreaming about how one day they will somehow get lucky. They haven't.)

At his first job they abused his inexperience, paid him about half the market price, and as he kept learning new things, they gave him more difficult work, without increasing his salary. But the work still paid bill for living in the city, he learned a lot of stuff, and then one day he left for another job that paid several times more.

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>Having worked at a YC-backed alternative to payday lender ( https://www.//lendup.com ) and having spent a lot of the time in the call center listening to our customers, I'd suggest that a lender to folks without access to credit can have much more impact than you could possibly imagine. Being able to instantly inject $500 into the bank account of someone that needed it for a car repair or they'd lose their job when…

You clearly don't understand how LendUp works, so I'll just leave it at that.

Yes, clearly I just don't understand the complex problems they are tackling. I'm certainly not calling them out on being shady and awful like every other payday lender since forever [0].

A few takeaways from their most recent CFPB fine of $6 million :

>"Misled consumers about graduating to lower-priced loans"

>"Hid the true cost of credit"

>"Reversed pricing without consumer knowledge"

>"Understated the annual percentage rate"

>"Failed to report credit information"

It's honestly sad how weak the CFPB is, but at least it's something. This entire industry is a stain on humanity.

[0] https://www.consumerfinance.gov/about-us/newsroom/lendup-enf...

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#190

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I would scout specific meetups of interest on Meetup.com before you go next time. You can definitely find several good ones in the same week in SF. Besides that it helps to be around other similar people, but I wouldn't necessarily spend my day in Philz / Ritual / Sightglass / Four Barrel / a co-working space if the trip was for vacation. I came to SF for a pre-accelerator once that brought a similar crowd. Staying i…

Do the interesting people really come to meetups? Almost all the tech ones seem like glorified networking or recruitment watering holes. I'd love to hang out with chill tech folks à la Homebrew Computer Club, but I get the feeling that kind of thing doesn't really exist anymore. Everyone is too busy peddling their wares.

I've had good luck at niche meetups like for one particular language or framework.

And then less good specific but decently good networking at interesting side projects meetups.

I think the general purpose tech meetups can be hit/miss. It takes some work to find the best big one in a city. The best one in my city asks that only startup employees attend and not third party recruiters unless they're sponsoring.

It also helps if the meetup is hosted at an incubator or accelerator type space — one signal of quality vs a random place.

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