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>I’m unmanned and unmoored without her I found that quite cutting. I'm not sure I could go on if my wife died prematurely. My mind has turned to this on occassions when people close to me have suffered severe illness or died, and I just can't see in my minds eye how I could cope.
May I ask absolutely sincerely: how differently do you feel about the scenario of your wife suddenly leaving you?
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May I ask absolutely sincerely: how differently do you feel about the scenario of your wife suddenly leaving you?
Dude.
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>I’m unmanned and unmoored without her I found that quite cutting. I'm not sure I could go on if my wife died prematurely. My mind has turned to this on occassions when people close to me have suffered severe illness or died, and I just can't see in my minds eye how I could cope.
May I ask absolutely sincerely: how differently do you feel about the scenario of your wife suddenly leaving you?
I am a 31 year old man, drinking in a bar, alone, weeping as I read this story. My heart goes out to you and your family. I’m so sorry.
I feel for Matt and anyone else who has to endure a loss.
I'm really sorry to hear this news.
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>I’m unmanned and unmoored without her I found that quite cutting. I'm not sure I could go on if my wife died prematurely. My mind has turned to this on occassions when people close to me have suffered severe illness or died, and I just can't see in my minds eye how I could cope.
May I ask absolutely sincerely: how differently do you feel about the scenario of your wife suddenly leaving you?
I was working late to make up some time and had headphones on. Wife told me "I'm gonna go soak in the tub and go to bed, see you in a bit." A couple hours later I finished what I was doing and headed towards the bedroom. I noticed the bathroom light was still on, and found her. Apparent heart attack and she drowned in the bathtub, and she'd been gone a while by the time I found her. Sudden wrenching loss. No opportunity to make up for fights. No goodbye. Just.. gone.
Anyway. This isn't about me. This is about the community helping Matt, in whatever way we can.
It really sucks that you had no warning, no time to spend in the last days. Knowing that it is coming sucks but being taken like that sucks (I've lost family to cancer, that is both better and more sucky).
It's clear that you loved her and that just makes it worse. Shit.
I keep thinking of stuff to say but it's all about me and my wife, don't want it to be about us. So I'm sorry for your loss, I hope you have family to support you, and I hope things get better for you.