You would feel
intense rage? Jesus. That sounds like
intense overkill. You might be quite unlike an average person if you specifically--and without fail--recall every choice you've made forever when you're in the process of setting up tools.
No, it's not at all like the software forgetting the options you've set. It's the software, in the interest of providing a user with the greatest possible control over their software, while having the average user's propensity to forget minor details in mind, offering the explicit option to re-evaluate a prior choice in the future without having to remember to do so, or manually recall the way to do it.
Moreover, when I threw out the off-the-cuff idea to occasionally re-prompt, I set that occasion as an annual one. You're making it sound in this overreaction as if I suggested it to occur every few days or weeks. Instead of instantly going to such unwarranted extremes as full-on-intense-rage-mode-11, thinking to yourself, "Oh my fucking god, what the fuck is wrong with this developer that s/he'd dare to ask me this question I answered 2 years ago again?!", you might pause just a moment to consider it to be a little like recalibrating a tool that's been in use for some time. Few people keep static positions on things. Such recalibration doesn't need to occur at every minor upgrade, but perhaps major upgrades might want to ask the user to review their settings/choices.
I've changed my position on things I've opted in/out of at various times. When it's privacy-related, I've increasingly developed a harder default stance over the last 15 years. I wouldn't mind if my tools asked me to annually review old choices I've long forgotten--much like I've heard Facebook offers people their little privacy checkups (ignoring for the moment the efficacy of such a checkup when everything you do is tracked). Many people other than me reacted to the way in which the analytics "feature" was included in homebrew with surprise, because many of us never noticed the notification, and a great many of us believe tracking is something that should always be opt-in, not opt-out. However, as of this writing, I can't recall exactly what my current homebrew setting for analytics is, and I can't recall how long it's been since I last checked it to ensure it is what I think it is.
But hey, that's just me, friend. I can't remember every choice I made last month, much less last year, two years ago, or any time before that. If you do, that's cool. If you were using a tool I created/maintained, and I wanted to cover all my bases, I'd simply give you a way to say, "Don't ever fucking ask me this question again or I'll rage tweet what a forgetful little shit you are." :)