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Re: Robert Scoble: “I apologize.”

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Why was Redesk CEO Guy Pearson looking to hire someone for a speaking engagement the day after they were accused of sexual assault? I stole that from Twitter, but it's not a good look. Did he just not really care or did he figure that he could act duplicitous and insert himself into a situation that has nothing to do with him? Who benefits from that? Would rather not make this comment at all because there's an actual…

you don't know what the timestamps are, he probably asked him the previous day or even a week ago.

He says in a follow up tweet that it was today...

Re: Robert Scoble: “I apologize.”

#42

The tweet linked in the article about letting this "play out" paints him worse, if that was possible. https://twitter.com/gtlpearson/status/921480719381254144

Why was Redesk CEO Guy Pearson looking to hire someone for a speaking engagement the day after they were accused of sexual assault? I stole that from Twitter, but it's not a good look. Did he just not really care or did he figure that he could act duplicitous and insert himself into a situation that has nothing to do with him? Who benefits from that? Would rather not make this comment at all because there's an actual…

I know Guy for years. He enjoys these theatrics. Look at Redesk.com, it's not even finished. There is no conference. Guy basically social engineered him. I have to almost laugh at how he still has the energy for shanigans at our age.

Re: Robert Scoble: “I apologize.”

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Well, it is sort of weak. But: A) How many actually good examples do we have to draw upon? Most such things are pretty blatant attempts at saving face. This at least has some sincerity to it. B) He isn't justifying, excusing or denying. He did quit drinking already, which is perhaps the most important thing he could do to prove he is taking it seriously that he needs to stop hurting other people. He is fairly realist…

> Amends are really hard to do. I'd just once love to see one of these abusers make some kind of serious penance. I mean something that costs more than a few words written on a page. Donating x% of their wealth to organizations of the victim's choosing (where x is a fraction large enough to be uncomfortable), entering some kind of monastic or hermetic lifestyle for more than a day or two, committing to X hours of ano…

Amends and penance are not the same thing. Amends are about reparations for the victim. Penance is about suffering for the perpetrator. These things are mostly not related.

Re: Robert Scoble: “I apologize.”

#45

Imagine the 30+ year backlog of material across all the rich and powerful men in Silicon Valley. What is going to be left once all of that is outed?

No, I'm pretty sure I can say that I never sexually assaulted a woman when drunk (or, of course, sober) 7, 10, 15, 20, or 40 years ago. So, I think, can most of us.

Re: Robert Scoble: “I apologize.”

#47

He's not even a little sorry. He's apologized like 5 times for this stuff: https://techcrunch.com/2017/10/20/robert-scoble-has-allegedl...

A real apology requires a clear statement of what you did wrong, why it was wrong, and what exactly you'll do better in the future. This apology doesn't even say what he did wrong. (He "damaged trust," "caused pain," "behaved in ways that were inappropriate.") He didn't admit that he sexually harassed anyone, say nothing of sexual assault. Without a clear admission of what he did, I have no idea if he knows why it wa…

On the list of public apologies, I give him a B+. he could have done better and he is not going to make everyone happy with his effort. It looks written by him. It looks sincere. It looks honest.

Yeah, a good apology should be several pages long but this was pretty good and well above some of the others we've seen.

'I am sorry that you felt abused and that your friends encouraged you to humiliate yourself in public...'

So, yeah, it's pretty good compared to some of them.

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