Earlier quoted context omitted.
> What if the women of this planet decide that male votes are shit, what then? Are we just going to have to fight it out? Democracy is a technology for simulating civil wars without going through the formality of fighting them. So it's desirable that the side that wins the election be the side that would have won the civil war. If this is chronically untrue, then the side that would have won the civil war has little…
Desirable for whom?
Typically when the side that would have won the civil war is unclear, it's also desirable to most.
Even when the (civil war favorite) party loses the political battle (election), usually the issue is not deemed important enough to accept the consequences of civil war, and a structured political/governmental/legestative resolution is the desirable outcome (for most) when weighed against engaging in a violent community/nation-wide conflict.