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Ask HN: How do I switch from being a passive consumer to an active producer?

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Re: Ask HN: How do I switch from being a passive consumer to an active producer?

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Well, perhaps you could think in this way whenever you browse your Facebook feed, Youtube, etc.: Why am I watching other people enjoying their lives when I could live my own? I get to live only once. Every big XYZ person that I watch has gone through this stage and so can I.

It's all about how you fight your mind. That's why they say compete against yourself. If a toddler never took the effort to walk during infant-hood, the toddler would never be able to walk. It is only when you get uncomfortable, does learning happen. You do it for the sake of learning, not for producing immediate results. Try to learn to enjoy the stage whenever you have acquired something new, let it be anything small. Trust me, you will reap the benefits of your hard work when you take it this way, rather than forcing yourself to do something. Results may take months or years and hence you need to be patient. More over, there is never a chance for regret if it's something that you genuinely want to do.

You might have watched Cristiano Ronaldo playing an old man's prank. Even though he played like a professional on the streets, nobody ever cared until he finally revealed himself. The lesson being, nobody ever cares whatever you are unless you you make a name for yourself. So go upload that youtube video of yours'. You are just building your foundation. There is nothing to loose. Regret is poison. Never consume it.

Re: Ask HN: How do I switch from being a passive consumer to an active producer?

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The guy wants advice on "how", not some words to make him feel better about not doing stuff, so let's give him that. > for most people this is an exercise that will in the long run lead to burnout. Your mind is already subconsciously telling you this. I want to point out that this is one of the reasons why people never start things. Let me share my experience as someone who has started, AND burned out, multiple times…

> I guarantee you you WILL NOT burn out if your thing goes well. I strongly disagree with this. I'm a compulsive person, I used to say yes to everything, I enjoy everything. I don't think I ever spent effort towards something that wasn't rewarding in some way or other. However. Stress is stress and it can be negative or positive. Stress makes you perform better, adrenaline pumping, your senses sharpen. It can all be…

I disagree as well. I actually gave a whole talk on the topic. Burnout has nothing to do with whether an undertaking is successful or not. If you look at Christina Maslach's work on the measurement and factors that lead to burnout you will see that the success/failure of the effort is not a significant antecedent to burnout.

For anyone interested in a (potentially) helpful framework for how to evaluate opportunities and avoid burnout, you can watch my talk here - https://vimeo.com/202061452

Re: Ask HN: How do I switch from being a passive consumer to an active producer?

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I would encourage you to find or build real, fleshspace community. I find that I am more productive and also gentler to myself when I am working in concert with others who are also trying to accomplish something and sharing honestly about their challenges. It might take a bit of trial and error but finding likeminded folks is crucial!

Re: Ask HN: How do I switch from being a passive consumer to an active producer?

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# Always Be Creating

If you want to shift from being a consumer to a producer, create something every day. If you're a writer, Stephen King suggests writing at least a page a day, even if you throw most of them away. The idea is that even if you don't have a ton of time or energy for something big today, you can still do a little bit to keep your creative mind engaged and mentally 'fit.' In other words, small things every day and bigger things when you can and have the time.

That principle can apply to other sorts of creative pursuits. One sketch every day if you're an artist. Play a song every day on your instrument (or sing it) if you're a musician.

If I'm working on a software project on the side, my extrapolation of the every day principle is to get some atomic feature of function to pass all my unit tests each day. With a small side project, that's​ usually doable in under an hour. Of course, you might need some more time up front to get your project to that well oiled state and write unit tests. There are other small thing per day sort of metrics that apply to software: even if you don't add an atomic feature, you might handle an outstanding pull request (or decide how to handle it), or pick a bug that you're focused on for the next week.

The persistence implied here is actually much harder​ that the actual creative process, but once you're rolling it's easier to maintain.

# Share-Worthy Milestones

Set achievement goals with the question: how far along do I have to get before there is some way I can share this project that will be interesting to other people? With a story or stage play, the first person you'd share with is an informal editor or friend, then a reading (play) or writing group (story), and eventually a professional editor or agent. Keep track of those milestones, and don't talk up what you're doing until you reach one of them. With a song, it might be: ready to perform at a bar that hosts local musicians, ready to record/master a version, and finally ready to sell alone or in an album online.

Software is trickier. There's ready-for-people-to-mess-with-it and also ready to maintain as a package (or packages) with regular releases. But there's also ready to host as a service and/or ready to monetize. It all depends on where you want to go with the project.

# Escaping a Passive/Consumer Mindset

I have several rules of thumb for keeping myself out of the consumer mindset. They are all either about managing time or managing things/stuff.

1. 80% of the things I own should be tools for making or doing something. That's four out of every five discrete things. And I'm constantly eyeing the last 20% for stuff to dispose of or donate. Anything that just sits on a shelf is in line for the guillotine. I do count books as tools for learning, but I try to only buy them rarely and any title I don't consider valuable enough to loan out regularly or reference in the future goes in a box labeled 'Sell at Half-Price Books.'

2. News reading is for downtime. I subscribe to the Wall Street Journal digitally and I do read it every day, but the key is that the reading happens when there is downtime: waiting for a meeting, a big project is compiling, unit testing or analysis is running on a big data set, et cetera. If news reading is happening during my free time (usually here or on reddit) I set a timer on my phone for a half hour. If I haven't been interested enough in a topic to draft and post my own comment after that time, I stop and do something else. Another great thing is listening to podcasts while doing chores or driving.

3. Television should average out to an hour every 3 or 4 days. That's 1 or 2 shows a week that I keep up with, at most. It was The Expanse until recently. It will probably be Game of Thrones again​ soon. And maybe one other show on the side. I also find myself less drawn to video games than I was as a kid, teenager, or student. I still try to remind myself to only game when there's some RPG I'm excited about---most recently The Witcher 3---and that feeling is more and more rare also. Some people cut out television and video games entirely, which I suppose may be necessary if you have trouble practicing self restraint.

4. Set aside time for creative and competitive play. Some of the larger things I still own are board games, and I use them. Head-to-head competition in a social setting requires a different kind of creativity and lets my brain switch​ gears from solitary creative pursuits. When I was growing up my dad always hated board games and I didn't get it until I realized that he gets his share of head-to-head competition every day as a trial lawyer and doesn't want more of it at home. That itch isn't scratched for me by writing software (though I hear programming competitions can be intense and rewarding) and I suspect committing some time to competitive, in-person games with sociable people (often friends) prevents me from burning out on work and lonely creation. If you don't have friends (who are so inclined also), look for a regularly scheduled meet up at a local game store.

5. Keep a balanced budget and use cash for petty transactions. It shocks me how many in my generation (mid-twenties) don't balance their accounts or track spending. I withdraw cash before going out, either for errands or for pleasure, and keep a check register which includes those withdrawals and which I validate against my account balance and activity online weekly. There's something about cash leaving my hand that makes it hard to use it buying stupid crap. Which, in turn, helps me keep to my first rule about owning mostly useful tools.

I use these rules of thumb because they work for me, but I don't assume they'd work unmodified for anyone. I hope they're at least helpful as a starting point for people who slip into passive consumption all too easily.

Re: Ask HN: How do I switch from being a passive consumer to an active producer?

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Isn't basing your values on the eulogy mind experiment you've described also a form of acting out of need for validation?

That's honestly a great point, and I had to mull this over quite a bit so I apologize for the delay. I wrote that as a complete stream of thought trying to deduce what I've learned over 3 years, so it makes sense that I'd leave out what I felt is a critical detail: Humans need validation. How much validation we need, and what the sources of validation are, in my opinion, are more important then the fact of getting va…

Thanks for these insights, it makes a lot of sense to me.

Re: Ask HN: How do I switch from being a passive consumer to an active producer?

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> Also would like to contribute to open source software projects, or write more for my blog, but I just can't force myself to do it. This is kinda a mix of fear (of what?!) and procrastination habits

Start answering questions on stack overflow. You can also find a more noob friendly oss project (kubernetes, Django) and start fixing docs, or look for "help-wanted" type labels. Lurk around their IRC/slack channels for a while, and if that doesn't help, lurk moar.

Re: Ask HN: How do I switch from being a passive consumer to an active producer?

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Would you mind explaining his you do this? Any software you use? Modus operandi?

I personally recommend physical boards when possible, especially for people just getting started. E.g., my startup-sized kanban board is here: http://williampietri.com/writing/2015/the-big-board/ You can happily use, e.g., sticky notes on a wall by your desk or inside a cabinet door. If you really can't do that, software can be ok, but it's easier to develop bad habits with software. With a physical system, certain t…

Thanks. That helps.

Is there any place or book where I can read more about the "personal kanban" principles.

Basically, I don't want to overdo it either. Want to understand the principles before jumping in.

Re: Ask HN: How do I switch from being a passive consumer to an active producer?

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Would you mind explaining his you do this? Any software you use? Modus operandi?

WeKan is a free software KanBan program like Trello, and is what powers https://todo.cyphar.com (I even have some boards public so I can show people my priority list in projects I maintain)

Thanks. If you have some information on my question above on the books on "personal kanban", can you help please?

Re: Ask HN: How do I switch from being a passive consumer to an active producer?

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I personally recommend physical boards when possible, especially for people just getting started. E.g., my startup-sized kanban board is here: http://williampietri.com/writing/2015/the-big-board/ You can happily use, e.g., sticky notes on a wall by your desk or inside a cabinet door. If you really can't do that, software can be ok, but it's easier to develop bad habits with software. With a physical system, certain t…

Thanks. That helps. Is there any place or book where I can read more about the "personal kanban" principles. Basically, I don't want to overdo it either. Want to understand the principles before jumping in.

There's this one: https://www.amazon.com/Personal-Kanban-Mapping-Work-Navigati...

Re: Ask HN: How do I switch from being a passive consumer to an active producer?

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That's honestly a great point, and I had to mull this over quite a bit so I apologize for the delay. I wrote that as a complete stream of thought trying to deduce what I've learned over 3 years, so it makes sense that I'd leave out what I felt is a critical detail: Humans need validation. How much validation we need, and what the sources of validation are, in my opinion, are more important then the fact of getting va…

Thanks for these insights, it makes a lot of sense to me.

Of course! And I would really suggest that if this is something of particular interest to you, to read some of the literature I listed above as a basis. I've had to adapt a large majority of what I read to my personal life, but it's been inspiring the see the results start to payoff.
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