What I basically want, is to have more control. I want a similar amount of control as to what I have with paper money, or even virtual in game currencies.
Right now, the scale is not tipped in my favor. I would be happy to pay for it.
I understand that banks have reasons for things to be arraigned the way they are.
I would love to have a "personal firewall" level of control over my money. I'd like to see that Widget of the month club is requesting $50, and I can confirm/deny it.
I only signed up for a widget of the month because it seemed like a good idea, but they deceived me into thinking I could back out at any time, and then when I cancelled my account, they just "paused" it for three months.
We don't use the "banking" model for other resources that are supposed to be our property. An app on my phone isn't supposed to be able to delete my photos, and the accepted solution is not that I call some external entity to undelete them. I know that these examples are very different, but that is what I would like.
I can also simply block someone from contacting me if I want, without having to justify it to my isp. I want to be able to do that with my money. If someone disagrees with me doing this, and thinks I still owe them money, they can be free to sue me, or do some other sanctions.
Right now, I create virtual credit cards and only fund them enough to pay my recurring payments. I want to automate it.
95% of the time, recurring payments that fail for me are done in bad faith, and these actors will not make a fuss if they can't process their payments.
I know this is probably a pipe dream, and that there are already system I can use, and that our financial system is set up the way it is for reasons. But that's a pain point for me, and a lot of people. People would like to be empowered, and feel that they have control. I think, in the end, things won't really change. Most people will still pay legitimate charges.