Disagree. I'm from the Midwest and live in SF now. Couldn't be happier with my change. Data point of one: - $2200/mo 1BR apt in SF (Inner Sunset). Not trendy, but nice. I got it 3 years ago. - Working for a major tech co. - Roughly $275K/yr in total comp (salary/equity/bonuses). It goes up around $10-20k every year, as my equity bumps compound and I get raises. - Putting away $18k/yr in 401k + $9k company match. - Av…
1. If you're going to count equity, count it by the value at the time of the grant [minus strike price], not what it's worth now. In terms of comp, it was a gamble that paid off.
2. It sounds like you work for one of the big 4? Not everybody gets this opportunity, in fact if your degree isn't in comp-sci they may not even want to talk to you (regardless of your IQ or what have you).