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I went to Nigeria to meet a man who scammed me

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Re: I went to Nigeria to meet a man who scammed me

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I get what you mean, I've been frequenting HN for years so I know the crowd. Regarding magic, to me it's not so much about whether magic exists but what it is. Sure, it's trickery, originally I guess it is what we would call technology, only wider, technology and psychology perhaps. It's about making things come to happen. I guess I could put it this way, Clarke's quote ("Any sufficiently advanced technology is indis…

from what you've just stated it's fine. What I meant is that there are people who believe you could levitate objects with your mind (like in the xmen comic books) and since you're writing about things that are already really, really outlandish it's SUPER-important not to fall into a comic-book style of narration!! :) If you thought you (or anyone) could actually levitate objects with your mind (and no technology) the…

I just want to remind you that it is you who are worried about my credibility, not me. So thank you for the advice, but I decline. It is also you who seem preoccupied with levitation.

Regarding the events, it's not comics. It's happening, and it's gotten worse the last 10 years. Voodoo comes from the deltas stretching from eastern Ghana over Togo and Benin to western Nigeria. Whatever it is they do they wield considerable control over people, to the point where big investments are dropped, houses never finished, parents leaving babies to fend for themselves.

But it's like @qb45 says, just google it. I want to advise though that there are many rumours as well, not the least because witch doctors have an interest in building the fear and the criminals want to instil respect and keep away nosy people.

Lastly, you come across as pretty rude to me. Just want to remind you that their is another person writing this, and I don't particularly like being talked about in third person and discredited for sharing an experience. So a piece of advice in return, think for a moment about they way you write about my writing having "issues" or what is or is not "needed", and it'll be fine.

Re: I went to Nigeria to meet a man who scammed me

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Reading through your comments, I think there's really only two resolutions to this situation. The first is that your mother in law will run out of funds, and die penniless. From what you say, that seems to be where this is heading. However, the only other resolution I can see is that she realizes on her own what is happening. You can lead her to the water, but you can't make her drink it. Realistically, I see that ha…

Easier said than done, but option 3: he could go after the scammer.

I mean, that's probably the best option for society, but it's going to probably hurt his relationship with her.

Re: I went to Nigeria to meet a man who scammed me

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Surprised this wasn't mentioned, but it's worth noting that traveling to Nigeria to meet scammers rarely ends well for the traveler. It's not safe. It sounds like she had a unique situation with an apparently repentant scammer, but these people are criminals, and they've already demonstrated their lack of respect for you.

Most people blow the risks of travel out of all proportion. I have traveled to known "dangerous" countries and the locals are usually way friendlier because of that. Learn who to trust, make a friend, listen to the locals. The same skills you need in your own country to avoid scams and danger can be used overseas. My experience is that most warnings (by people that haven't traveled to the country in question) are pur…

Sorry for the late reply: I'm definitely not afraid of travel. In afraid of traveling to another country in order to meet someone who has just tried to scam you.
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