Earlier quoted context omitted.
It's not the same, but it is a powerful metaphor. Wanted email is to consensual relations as spam is to physical violation.
It's a very bad metaphor, because the "spammer" term is thrown around casually in IT and is often false. For instance, someone might be called a "spammer" if they post a lot to some forum, by someone else who disagrees with them. If you equate "rapist" with "spammer", you might be regarded as trivializing "rapist" accusations as being usually false and frivolous in the same way.
I don't think he was equating the two at a legal or moral level, just presenting an analogy with regards to:
- The likelihood of false accusations being similar in both cases (higher than the norm)
- The devastating social consequences of falsely accusing someone of either crime, even where no proof exists
Having said that, there are circles where false accusations of "rape" are sometimes thrown around rather frivolously, and where the term is being stretched to include other lesser crimes, such as crimes of expression ("verbal rape") and sexual harassment. You may not be familiar with these circles, but they do exist. If you've ever heard someone use the term "he raped me with his eyes": this is the action that trivializes the actual crime of rape.
Making the observation that this subculture exists in no way trivializes actual cases of rape.
I think this may have been the intent of the analogy.