> "The word spam is kind of like calling someone a rapist. It has — in [the] digital world — calling someone a spammer is the worst thing you could possibly call them." I really don't feel that spammer and rapist are even in the same league.
It's not the same, but it is a powerful metaphor. Wanted email is to consensual relations as spam is to physical violation.
If you equate "rapist" with "spammer", you might be regarded as trivializing "rapist" accusations as being usually false and frivolous in the same way.