Frankly this blows pretty hard and the only remediation is reliable public transit between the two, or more to the point, some form of light rail (with frequent all-day every-day service) or even heavy rapid transit. Sadly many municipalities find this unappetizing as the time-frame for such a project stretches past a decade and the cost into the billions, so such cities will inevitably be left to languish.
I can only hope that they start to see the writing on the wall sooner than later.
The complete and total lack of attention to bicycle infrastructure is an issue too, but that is a whole different can of worms.