I get this same vibe from a lot of older folks (or people who want to sound like them, all grizzled and what). True, from a hardware standpoint, Apple devices are closed. What matters today however, is that they are open devices from the perspective of a platform and web software developer. Has everyone forgot how cellphones were black boxes before the iPhone? And lets not forget that we make stuff for normal people…
I must have forgotten that because it isn't true. On my P800 or Blackberry I could install any app, not just approved ones.
(Edit: I wonder if this meme about the "cell phone dark ages" comes from the millions of people who switched from dumbphones to iPhone and thus aren't personally familiar with the actual smartphone state of the art circa 2006.)