she used the app Nurx for birth control because she felt uncomfortable visiting a doctor Frankly, this terrifies me. Getting medication which is generally accepted to be mostly safe from a pharmacy because it's cheaper and more convenient than seeing a doctor, sure. But if you're not comfortable seeing a doctor... you should probably be seeing a doctor.
A person you don't know has trust issues with the medical community. If those issues are unfounded and she's being irrational, her choices won't affect you beyond a potential trivial increase in your health insurance premiums and/or taxes. There are many other bad health decisions people habitually make that have a larger impact there than a small number of people having an irrational aversion to seeing their doctors.
Or do you think she might have a rational aversion to seeing her doctor, which would have frightening implications for other people?