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Re: Fifty

#111

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"namely, a senior employee likely has a lot of his/her own personal overhead to cover, so salary requirements will be understandably greater" I wouldn't assume that, once the mortgage is paid off and kids have left home the cost of living plummets. In fact there could be a real cost advantage if nobody else is offering them a job.

That's a big and dangerous assumption. Take the Bay Area...many people living here now that will likely never be able to buy a home if prices stay even close to where they are (let alone ever pay it off if they did). So then they have large mortgages or high rents. There's also increased risk of major medical expenses, the baggage of paying for things like divorces, college, etc.

Right now you can assume those with high mortgages are in their twenties and thirties, someone in their fifties probably sorted their housing problem twenty five years ago.

Re: Fifty

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I have a friend that is 53 that still does triathlons with people half his age.

Not uncommon, I'm 52 and still beat most of the men who are literally half my age. I even outright win a race once in a while if I'm not on the west coast (much more competitive, I've found). Granted, there's a bit of innate talent and hard training involved. Frankly, I don't give it a lot of thought, I just run like I always have. It's not until someone else points it out that I'm like "hmm, I guess that isn't too b…

Interesting, isn't it?

I swim (since I was 13, that is > 37 years). I also don't train like a maniac any more but simply try to improve my style and keep my fitness. But I hardly meet anyone in the pool half my age who has the slightest chance to keep up. This is not meant as boasting at all. The good non-professional athletes seem to be > 40 these days.

Is that a sign that we don't have good trainers? Or do others only start to work out after the doctor starts to pale while looking at the blood analysis?

Re: Fifty

#113
The problem with getting old is that one-by-one all the things that you dreamed of as young and you got to try when got older, feel old and demystified. Suddenly you look out and see less "magic", less mystery, less things to make you excited, fewer major surprises around the corner.

I'm only (//already) in my early 30s but it scares me to think how it might feel, at an older age, to not be able to see anything in the same exciting eye that a teenager does. And the things that might still feel exciting, to not be able to try, due to constraints that "grownups" have (health issues, family, work, other responsibilities, lack of friends willing to participate)

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#114

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I'm in a similar place to the OP. I turn 50 in a week. I get told often I look in my 30s. The majority of my friends are in their 30s. Hung out for 6 months with 28yr olds forming a startup last year, they asked me to join them. With few exceptions I don't fit with people my age. What I find frustrating is the society at large won't let me ignore my age. You get categorized all the time. Some meetup or dating event i…

Man I don't look forward of being 50. It's a hard time getting a decent programming job at 30, imagine 50 :(

Be very good at what you do and then age won't matter. - 40 year old

Re: Fifty

#115

Wow, my inbox just overflowed with people mailing me happy birthday, now I get it :) Thanks to all!

You're lucky to know people who remembered. Don't take it for granted.

Re: Fifty

#116
post #14

Welcome to "this side" - the secret is that there are no sides, you might become a day more experienced today than you were yesterday. I don't feel (or act) my age and since I don't celebrate my birthday (or even let others know it's occurred), their guess as to my age is always way low. In any case, you may not consider yourself employable, but there's almost always a bias for the "gets things done" person. If your…

I think you hit the nail on the head: "Many institutions are looking for the politically correct person..."

Politics so often dictates who companies hire and influence factors like gender, age and sex. Sad.

Though being able to work with people matters and being nice/kind is a good quality to have, the focus on making sure the right backs are scratched as become so pervasive in the corporate world that it actually holds back progress.

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#117

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That's a big and dangerous assumption. Take the Bay Area...many people living here now that will likely never be able to buy a home if prices stay even close to where they are (let alone ever pay it off if they did). So then they have large mortgages or high rents. There's also increased risk of major medical expenses, the baggage of paying for things like divorces, college, etc.

Right now you can assume those with high mortgages are in their twenties and thirties, someone in their fifties probably sorted their housing problem twenty five years ago.

Again--that's a big assumption. Would love to know what data you are basing that on.

It is dangerous to assume a certain narrative about a certain demographic like that.

Re: Fifty

#118

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Right now you can assume those with high mortgages are in their twenties and thirties, someone in their fifties probably sorted their housing problem twenty five years ago.

Again--that's a big assumption. Would love to know what data you are basing that on. It is dangerous to assume a certain narrative about a certain demographic like that.

It's not a big assumption, or did you think peoples mortgages increased with age?
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