I went to school and dropped out twice — Caltech and Georgetown. I think I maybe have 20 credit hours under my belt? I don't even know. I'm now 24. I've done quite okay for myself. On paper, I'm not that appealing — non-violent/non-drug related felonies, dropped out of two very highly-regarded schools ("there must be something wrong here"), and some baggage from when I was a child ("mommy/daddy issues") that still sn…
If you have an opportunity to go to a really top-end school, sure, take it. That's really valuable. But remember, that's not an opportunity most people have. Don't pretend that a degree from the school you see advertised on daytime TV is the same sort of product. This, I think, is the "big lie" about college. The idea that a poor person with a degree from a shitty college is going to have even just the opportunities…
My parents — probably like yours — are very traditional. And in so, they are convinced that having that piece of paper means you're +$30k a year from the start > ( except outliers).
I STILL hear this all the time... "when I was your age..."
I reply, "yeah well when Barack Obama was your age, he was the first black President of the United States of America."
When my parents were my age, they could go to school full-time at the University of Minnesota, have a minimum wage job, and at 16 hours a week they would be able to afford their education and living expenses.
Those were the days where it made sense to have an education because it was such a great value at a very affordable price.
BUT. Now, because it's so much easier to get (a la student loans), Universities saw this as money in their pocket: Since students are getting money easier, that means it's easier for them to get an education; now that there's more money available, let's make more money for ourselves!
It's a terrible fucking system.