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Women would lose $4.6B in earned tips if ‘tip stealing’ rule is finalized

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Re: Women would lose $4.6B in earned tips if ‘tip stealing’ rule is finalized

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Italy? I don't believe your experience was universal.

I experienced nothing but exceptional service in Italy.

As an Italian, I'm happy that at least somebody did get great service :)

To be fair, it really varies so much between regions and even towns. Restaurants are usually ok, but regular shops in big cities... eh.

Re: Women would lose $4.6B in earned tips if ‘tip stealing’ rule is finalized

#92

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I was mainly referring to general wage discrimination across all industries, but here's a few references for the restaurant industry from 10 seconds of googling: http://rocunited.org/publications/tipped-over-the-edge-gende... – The industry follows a conscious business model of confining women to the lower-paid positions within restaurants. Women are hired for only 19 percent of chef positions, for example, even thou…

> women are hired for only 19 percent of chef positions, for example, even though traditionally most women are more likely to do a majority of the cooking at home. This is a ridiculous statement. Cooking at home has zero to do with going to culinary school and becoming a chef. If you visit most restaurant kitchens -- the line cooks and dishwashers are almost always men (or at least 80%+ of them,) based on my experien…

>> women are hired for only 19 percent of chef positions, for example, even though traditionally most women are more likely to do a majority of the cooking at home.

> If you visit most restaurant kitchens -- the line cooks and dishwashers are almost always men

So your argument is that the discrimination begins much earlier in the chain?

Re: Women would lose $4.6B in earned tips if ‘tip stealing’ rule is finalized

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As a counter counter point, there are places which don't take tips, and they offer some of the best customer service in the world. Japan is a good example. In the food service industry, establishments will usually put their own service charge which they think is reasonable onto the bill (usually a small amount). They don't expect (many will refuse to take) further tips because they price the cost to serve into it.

My example is clearly assuming the customer is in the United States. I don't think we can copy a few things about Japan's food service industry and expect to have a similar dining experience here. Culture is too complex for that to work. Japan's entire service industry always leaves me pleased.

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Re: Women would lose $4.6B in earned tips if ‘tip stealing’ rule is finalized

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Counter point -- Tipping is a way to insure excellent service on return visits to service oriented establishments.

As a counter counter point, there are places which don't take tips, and they offer some of the best customer service in the world. Japan is a good example. In the food service industry, establishments will usually put their own service charge which they think is reasonable onto the bill (usually a small amount). They don't expect (many will refuse to take) further tips because they price the cost to serve into it.

Got an example within the US? Because your example just seems like Japanese culture - which isn't going to change in the US regardless of tips.

Re: Women would lose $4.6B in earned tips if ‘tip stealing’ rule is finalized

#95
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So, I assume you never tip when traveling?

Of course I tip when traveling. Not providing a normal tip when accepting a service is breaking the social contract and anti-social. I do tip more at places I frequent.

Then you are conceding the point you are countering.

Re: Women would lose $4.6B in earned tips if ‘tip stealing’ rule is finalized

#96

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I disagree. Tipping in the UK for example is not as popular as in the US, and the service quality for me was better in the UK.

I've had reverse experience. Service was better in US than UK.

Better in what way?

Re: Women would lose $4.6B in earned tips if ‘tip stealing’ rule is finalized

#97
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Of course I tip when traveling. Not providing a normal tip when accepting a service is breaking the social contract and anti-social. I do tip more at places I frequent.

Then you are conceding the point you are countering.

I concede there is a non-trivial number of cases in which my counter-point is irrelevant.

Re: Women would lose $4.6B in earned tips if ‘tip stealing’ rule is finalized

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I've had reverse experience. Service was better in US than UK.

Better in what way?

The servers returned more often in the US than in UK to just check on the table, they returned to get drink orders more often. They brought the check more quickly in the US when we were ready to leave.

As someone who has waited tables as a kid, I know why they did all those things in the US more often. People often tip more on alcohol and you can also get your table turned over more quickly during your shift. In the UK there's no incentive to get more alcohol to tables nor to turn over the table.

Now, I'm not going to explain myself or reply any further, as I'm getting DV.

Re: Women would lose $4.6B in earned tips if ‘tip stealing’ rule is finalized

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I hate tipping culture. When I was young and a waitress in college, I noticed horrible racism from waiters who treated minorities badly due to tipping stereotypes. Please just get rid of it for living wages.

Everybody knows, African Americans tip the worst, Native Americans tip the best-- and tips are based on cup size.

The world is not fair.

Re: Women would lose $4.6B in earned tips if ‘tip stealing’ rule is finalized

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I hate tipping culture. When I was young and a waitress in college, I noticed horrible racism from waiters who treated minorities badly due to tipping stereotypes. Please just get rid of it for living wages.

Have you been in countries without tipping culture? Almost all of them have much worse service quality.

Here in Australia, I find the service is generally quite good, and staff are paid fairly adequately.
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