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You think it's homophobic for someone to write about their own struggle with internalized homophobia?
"I still despise it..." - you seriously did not understand that statement? And you took it to mean his own INTERNALIZED struggle?
> More importantly, it helped me identify the boundary between my intellect and my emotions. Like most white people who are questioned, I am quick to say, “I don’t have problems with homosexuals, one of my best friends is a lesbian.” For me that is sincerely true. I have managed, however, to reconcile the differences of my mind and my heart to maintain what I think is and hope will continue to be a close personal friendship. Indeed, it is through the lasting nature of that friendship that my emotional core is changing. I changed my mind a long time ago.