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I like being around people who talk about interesting things other than sports. I remain baffled at how people find sports interesting.
I love sports, and until a few years severely disliked theater and had no idea why people liked it. Didn't make sense, boring, long, generally stupid. Then I decided to get over myself and see what the fuss was about. Now I get it. I imagine you could do that if you wanted to. Up to you.
I'm a techie by choice but I was raised lit'rary. I love the idea of theater, but the actuality, no thanks, attention seeking narcissists strut and fret their hour upon the stage: I only wish they were heard no more.
I am a fan of coffee shops, though, but coffee shops in theater districts: bring name-dropping cancelling headphones.