I think in many ways it's impossible to have this discussion with a U.S. audience. The idea of force and violence being the solution to everything is deeply, deeply ingrained in U,S, culture. Simply suggesting that reason and cooperation can solve some of the problems we in the U.S. attempt to solve with more violence is usually met with the "starship troopers" ideology that violence is the actual source of legitimac…
For example, when asked how confident they are that the military will act in their best interests, Americans give similar answers to people in France, UK, Italy.
https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2018/09/04/trust-in-th...
The US may be more partisan, with a larger portion of people on a side that can be identified with "increased use of force", but I don't think the US is qualitatively different overall.