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Yep, agreed - sounds like we have a similar take :). In my specific case my SO grew up in Cupertino and her family is here, so that's another element that makes it hard to leave. I'm currently doing the live with roommates bit, but it's a hard tradeoff to make. Also I saw where you work in your HN bio - do you partner with VRAD (or maybe are considering starting your own)? I've always though leveraging ML imaging sof…
Why can't you rent a studio or 1-bedroom without roommates? A Bay Area tech salary should more than cover it.
Helps to save more to try and buy a place eventually.