As opposed to Facebook seeing my messages and selling data? What am I not understanding here?
You can’t have privacy and still communicate through any form of instant messaging. Don’t tell me about some oss platform that no one uses.
I text because I don’t like social networking sites. If my message fails to send, I get an error. I don't get to send gifs, high quality photos, or see when people are typing back but that's a small price.