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Sorry, I live here. I have an average salary for my experience. I can barely save $20k/yr. My rent+util is about $2000/month. I live in a very /cheap/ 1-bedroom with creaky carpet floors, no insulation, and near train tracks that's far outside SF. (Belmont) Altogether I spend close to $4000/month if I don't do anything special. /Everything/ is more expensive in this region. Food is expensive for no apparent reason ot…
You don't have an average salary for your experience. $4,000 * 12 is $48,000. Plus your $20k in purported savings is only $68k. That's only $100k in gross pay, which is the bare minimum for a developer in SV. Most new grads make more than that.
Most new grads here make $90k-110k from what I've seen. Yes, you can make more. Yes, there are companies that pay stock on top of that. Those people are not me.
I make ~$110k. Minimal benefits. No stock. I happen to work for a big company too. Not every company here pays well and many low ball as hard as they can. (And succeed at low balling)
Before this job, I made $65k. Companies low ball hard and if you can't interview well, you take what you can get.