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Why aren't smart people happier? (2022)

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Re: Why aren't smart people happier? (2022)

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I will speak from my experience. When I was younger, I considered myself very smart, and I was pretty unhappy. As I grew, I met people much smarter than me; I stopped seeing myself as "the smart" one, and now I am pretty happy. It's not that I became happier because I became less smart; I became happier when I stopped thinking my value was based on my intelligence, so I stopped trying to be recognized by my intellect…

I got labeled "smart but lazy" at a pretty young age (high test scores, didn't do any homework), and I let that label stick with me for far too long. I took some pride in how I could get the top score in a class without studying, and didn't realize that studying itself was a useful skill. I let this whole mindset drag me down through undergrad (especially once I hit the point where I really ought to have studied), an…

now, parents are supposed to say "good effort" not "you are smart"

Re: Why aren't smart people happier? (2022)

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Well, you made the arguably far less substantiated claim that intelligence is a physical attribute and thus bounded to +/-20% range for most of the population... And that it can't be trained, despite all the evidence to contrary. If you're no longer interested defending that position, that's okay.

Speaking of unsubstantiated claims… what evidence is there that intelligence can be trained? You’re confusing intelligence with IQ tests. I made no such claim that intelligence is bounded to 20%, you seem to have misunderstood. I pointed out the fact that IQ tests are by design not tied to nor proportional to actual intellectual capacity. If you disagree, maybe you can provide some relevant information? So far your o…

Okay, let's step back a little. When you said "there are good reasons to assume IQ works the same way [as the hypothetical HQ]" - what exactly did you mean by that? Did you mean to imply the ratio between intelligence of someone with IQ 100 and IQ 180 is smaller than a factor of 1.8, or did you mean something else?

The evidence that intelligence can be trained is that every metric of intelligence ever invented is consistently going up when the subjects spend time to prepare themselves before being measured. IQ tests, school grades, chess performance, math olympiads, you name it. Sure, you can always claim that all of those are skills separate from intelligence and that's why becoming better is possible - but then how do you explain that being better at one of these automatically makes you better at all the others, if the overall intelligence stays the same?

Also, I said the range is +/-20% already in my very first reply. Why didn't you correct me back then? Why did you wait until now?

Re: Why aren't smart people happier? (2022)

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This article is so mid. The author clearly feels how mid he is and is desperate to justify that mid people are also smart, maybe even smarter in that superior nebulous way on ambiguous, ill-defined problems than those squares that can only solve those boring textbook well-defined problems.

Re: Why aren't smart people happier? (2022)

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My secretary is absolutely clueless about maths and yet every interaction with her improves my mood, she is a lovely motherly 50something person who cheers you up every day. Her being my colleague definitely makes me happier.

She’s your secretary, she’s paid to be pleasant.

She is equally pleasant to everyone, including her kids, her friends and her neighbors. We have known each other for 10 years as amateur singers before I even employed her.

Your cynical view of reality is also extremely narrow and misleading. The world is more varied and colorful than you think.

She would have laughed you heartily for suggesting that she could simply wear different personalities to her work like clothes. This is precisely what highly emotional people struggle to achieve. On the rare occasion when she feels dejected or depressed (the kids, twins, are 16 and sometimes a handful), everyone around will definitely know.

Re: Why aren't smart people happier? (2022)

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I strongly agree. I am not bragging (it's not even really impressive) when I say I have an IQ of around 125-130, depending on the test. We often get professional psychometric tests here in Denmark while we're interviewing for cognitively demanding jobs. As a child I was profoundly depressed. I absorbed everything around me, and the negative stimuli affected me to a far greater degree. I'm not sure if that's innate or…

I'm glad it worked for you. Lifestyle interventions had a positive impact on me as well but depression can be much more complex/stubborn and it affects everyone differently. It's not just maladaptive thought patterns or beliefs that make it harder to feel happy or function normally. Chronic depression can shape the trajectory of your life in ways that are difficult to undo. So even treatments that increase flexibilit…

I agree, and my experiences acho yours. I was put onto SSRIs at age six, which is highly unusual - especially at the time. It was not an easy hole to climb out of.

Re: Why aren't smart people happier? (2022)

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Speaking of unsubstantiated claims… what evidence is there that intelligence can be trained? You’re confusing intelligence with IQ tests. I made no such claim that intelligence is bounded to 20%, you seem to have misunderstood. I pointed out the fact that IQ tests are by design not tied to nor proportional to actual intellectual capacity. If you disagree, maybe you can provide some relevant information? So far your o…

Okay, let's step back a little. When you said "there are good reasons to assume IQ works the same way [as the hypothetical HQ]" - what exactly did you mean by that? Did you mean to imply the ratio between intelligence of someone with IQ 100 and IQ 180 is smaller than a factor of 1.8, or did you mean something else? The evidence that intelligence can be trained is that every metric of intelligence ever invented is con…

> what exactly did you mean by that?

Great question. My primary point was that the IQ scale and absolute intelligence aren’t the same things, and people often assume they are (this article’s premise, for example), or even worse many people assume that absolute intelligence goes up exponentially along with the rarity of the IQ ranking. Height was simply an example of how there’s an obvious discrepancy between standard deviations and the underlying absolute metric; the rarity of one person’s height says literally nothing about how tall they are, and yet people assume without any justification whatsoever that the rarity of someone’s IQ score does say something about how smart they are. All human physical characteristics have a relatively narrow range, and they don’t increase exponentially. Running is another example - Usain Bolt can run faster than 99.9999% of people, and yet he’s only 10% faster than the average competitive sprinter and maybe ~50% faster than the average person not trained in running. You’ll see similar distributions with weight lifting. The number of brain cells doesn’t grow without bound - we all have similar amounts. The construction of the brain cells and the structure of the brain isn’t wildly different from person to person. Most skulls are approximately the same size. Most eyeballs and ears and arms and legs all vary by about the same amount height and head size varies. So, there really is good reason to start with the hypothesis that raw biological cognitive capacity and speed don’t vary by a lot more than height does, and - importantly - that they all top out at the upper end of the distribution.

> Did you mean to imply the ratio between intelligence of someone with IQ of 100 and IQ 180 is smaller than a factor of 1.8, or did you mean something else?

I meant that from the start, assuming the factor is 1.8 is a very bad assumption. That’s simply not how standard deviations work. Yes, please consider the possibility that the cognitive capacity of IQ 180 is less than 1.8 times more than that of IQ 100. If intelligence has a similar distribution to other physical characteristics, then difference between the mean and the first standard deviations is much larger than the difference between the first and second standard deviations. Translation: the jump from 130 to 160 is probably much smaller than the jump from 100 to 130. And going from 160 to 190 IQ, there is likely a negligible, unmeasurable difference in absolute intelligence. This is the opposite of the popular conceptions of IQ, right?

> The evidence that intelligence can be trained is that every metric of intelligence ever invented is consistently going up

Again, you are confusing raw intelligence with psychometric tests. Yes you can train for an IQ test. No, you cannot train intelligence. ‘Intelligence’ in this context, the kind we are discussing, is defined as the biological component of cognitive capacity that cannot be trained. Intelligence and skill are two different things, go ahead and google that question. The fact that IQ tests are not currently able to differentiate between intelligence and skill is a well known shortcoming of IQ tests, and that relates directly to my initial point: IQ is not a great measure and assuming that IQ score and happiness would have a correlation anywhere near 1 is a very bad assumption.

> Sure, you can always claim that all of those are skills separate from intelligence

Yes, yes I can, since it’s true. Therefore, given that fact, the question you asked is one for you to ponder and answer. What is the source of the claim that being better at one “automatically makes you better at all the others”? Does taking IQ tests give you more brain cells or increase your cognitive speed? You’re hand-waving this training argument and ignoring the fact that people who train for IQ tests still top out and hit a wall regardless of the amount of practice, they don’t increase their scores indefinitely. If intelligence could be trained, why isn’t everyone a so-called high IQ genius?

> Why didn’t you correct me back then?

Hehe I don’t need to argue every wrong thing you say, and doing so doesn’t make for good conversation. Your assumptions only reflect on you, not me. I assumed you’d eventually re-read the comment you replied to and figure out that using 20% in your argument was straw man given that I actually gave an example of a 50% variance in height in that same comment, and that I only used height as an analogy, not a claim about intelligence. When people seem to misunderstand my comments, whether it’s a mistake or intentional, I prefer to try to clarify my broader intent and not nitpick every word. Rebutting every single thing tends to escalate arguments and send the impression that you’re reflexively arguing rather than thinking, and seeking disagreement rather than agreement. I try to follow the HN guidelines, and I’m by no means always perfect, but they are pretty good guidelines, right?

Re: Why aren't smart people happier? (2022)

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> The actionable item is 1. IQ is low, they probably need tutoring or special education classes; 2. IQ is high, they are probably too bored and need harder classes or some other intervention; 3. IQ is normal, probably it's some other issue. And this is precisely why I took the test. The only 'official' IQ test I've taken in my life. Psychiatrist told my dad I didn't have enough grit to stick with things I found borin…

Why did they need to do an IQ test though? Grit is a completely different dimension.

Answers the question: low IQ, or low grit?

Re: Why aren't smart people happier? (2022)

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Why did they need to do an IQ test though? Grit is a completely different dimension.

Answers the question: low IQ, or low grit?

OP said he was successful without ever studying. That directly shows higher IQ, low Grit. Not sure what extra information the IQ test added except the vanity and ego boost it gives someone.

Re: Why aren't smart people happier? (2022)

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Okay, let's step back a little. When you said "there are good reasons to assume IQ works the same way [as the hypothetical HQ]" - what exactly did you mean by that? Did you mean to imply the ratio between intelligence of someone with IQ 100 and IQ 180 is smaller than a factor of 1.8, or did you mean something else? The evidence that intelligence can be trained is that every metric of intelligence ever invented is con…

> what exactly did you mean by that? Great question. My primary point was that the IQ scale and absolute intelligence aren’t the same things, and people often assume they are (this article’s premise, for example), or even worse many people assume that absolute intelligence goes up exponentially along with the rarity of the IQ ranking. Height was simply an example of how there’s an obvious discrepancy between standard…

> Hehe I don’t need to argue every wrong thing you say

No you don't. But if it's a central point of my argument, and ESPECIALLY when you throw it in my face later on that I based my argument around it - it feels like I wasted a lot of time and effort for nothing, and makes me wonder how much else of what I'm saying is a similar waste of time because you refrained from telling me I'm wrong about something else similarly important. Makes me hesitant to put too much effort into this conversation.

> I meant that from the start, assuming the factor is 1.8 is a very bad assumption.

I agree with the literal words - exactly 1.8 is almost certainly the wrong answer. But where we differ is that you believe it's less than 1.8, and I believe it's more than 100. A person with IQ 180 is likely two orders of magnitude more intelligent in absolute terms than someone with IQ 100. On the other hand, someone with IQ 60 is only marginally less intelligent than someone with IQ 100. It's because intelligence is not a physical attribute, but closer to a skill.

Usain Bolt is only a little faster than a typical adult because speed is capped by the physical limits of the human body. Intelligence is not, because it's not a physical attribute.

And if you want to continue insisting it is a physical attribute, I'd like to ask you for some evidence that it's actually the case, rather than assuming it a priori. As far as I know, neither brain size nor the number of neurons nor synapses is correlated with IQ.

Re: Why aren't smart people happier? (2022)

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She’s your secretary, she’s paid to be pleasant.

She is equally pleasant to everyone, including her kids, her friends and her neighbors. We have known each other for 10 years as amateur singers before I even employed her. Your cynical view of reality is also extremely narrow and misleading. The world is more varied and colorful than you think. She would have laughed you heartily for suggesting that she could simply wear different personalities to her work like clot…

It’s not cynical, you’re just over simplifying. Many of my family members are very bright and funny. I’m generally considered a funny person. It’s not an either/or. I mean, you’re kind of illustrating my point.
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