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Keynes on the influence of furniture on love

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Re: Keynes on the influence of furniture on love

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I once met somebody on the train who lives in the Bay Area and told me that her dating experiences in the area with tech guys included more than one "guy who just has a mattress on the floor". If there's any takeaway from the 15 seconds you spent looking at this article and the comments, you should buy a bed frame. Any bedframe. Just take the mattress off the floor. If you're on this site, you can afford one. Extra c…

The other side of that coin is that if she can't tolerate mattress on floor to access tech money then maybe the other guy dodged a bullet too depending on what he's after. I found myself turning down the class intentionally a lot because my current income/wealth level exceeds the norm for my background at my age and I don't want to live with someone who doesn't share my social/cultural norms. It reminds me of a passa…

Where did you grow up that to social norm is a bed with no frame?

Re: Keynes on the influence of furniture on love

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> sexual partner This is painful to read. I hope my sons know the joy of having wives, and my daughters know the joy of having husbands.

And I hope they do so after having had many sexual partners before, so they have some experience before choosing a wife/husband.

Eh. Good sex is important, but I don't think that you need a lot of notches on your bedpost to have or recognize it.

Re: Keynes on the influence of furniture on love

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I once met somebody on the train who lives in the Bay Area and told me that her dating experiences in the area with tech guys included more than one "guy who just has a mattress on the floor". If there's any takeaway from the 15 seconds you spent looking at this article and the comments, you should buy a bed frame. Any bedframe. Just take the mattress off the floor. If you're on this site, you can afford one. Extra c…

Steve Jobs famously started out like that, a mattress and a MASSIVE stereo. Maybe they try to emulate their hero?

That usually turns out well, doesn't it?

Re: Keynes on the influence of furniture on love

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By bizarre coincidence, I actually lost a sexual partner right when I bought my current bed frame.

> sexual partner This is painful to read. I hope my sons know the joy of having wives, and my daughters know the joy of having husbands.

Some people have casual sex. Nothing wrong with that.

Re: Keynes on the influence of furniture on love

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It is simply a matter of utility. Bed frames do not provide much utility, and cost money, which seperates me from my early retirement. Tech bros are probably making this utilitarian decision more consciously than the woman was considering her own mate evaluation feature detectors. A more intelligent, less shallow woman would have connected the dots. Had the male been percieved as sufficiently physically attractive sh…

I honestly cannot tell whether this is an intentional troll meme attempt. This is just too good to be true. A more intelligent, less shallow woman [would've seen past the lack of a bed frame] [bed frames] separate me from my early retirement. ahahahh so you will retire 15 minutes earlier after a lifetime of sleeping on the floor, what an intelligent trade-off

Calling a woman shallow for being concerned about your sleeping conditions sure sounds like trolling.

Re: Keynes on the influence of furniture on love

#46

I once met somebody on the train who lives in the Bay Area and told me that her dating experiences in the area with tech guys included more than one "guy who just has a mattress on the floor". If there's any takeaway from the 15 seconds you spent looking at this article and the comments, you should buy a bed frame. Any bedframe. Just take the mattress off the floor. If you're on this site, you can afford one. Extra c…

The other side of that coin is that if she can't tolerate mattress on floor to access tech money then maybe the other guy dodged a bullet too depending on what he's after. I found myself turning down the class intentionally a lot because my current income/wealth level exceeds the norm for my background at my age and I don't want to live with someone who doesn't share my social/cultural norms. It reminds me of a passa…

> The other side of that coin is that if she can't tolerate mattress on floor to access tech money

... I mean, this isn't most peoples' primary intention when dating.

Re: Keynes on the influence of furniture on love

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It is simply a matter of utility. Bed frames do not provide much utility, and cost money, which seperates me from my early retirement. Tech bros are probably making this utilitarian decision more consciously than the woman was considering her own mate evaluation feature detectors. A more intelligent, less shallow woman would have connected the dots. Had the male been percieved as sufficiently physically attractive sh…

I honestly cannot tell whether this is an intentional troll meme attempt. This is just too good to be true. A more intelligent, less shallow woman [would've seen past the lack of a bed frame] [bed frames] separate me from my early retirement. ahahahh so you will retire 15 minutes earlier after a lifetime of sleeping on the floor, what an intelligent trade-off

I remember the experiment a while ago with the ban on political topics on HN.

What this site more urgently needs is a ban on any discussion of sex or dating. It’s always pretty sick-making.

Re: Keynes on the influence of furniture on love

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post #47

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I honestly cannot tell whether this is an intentional troll meme attempt. This is just too good to be true. A more intelligent, less shallow woman [would've seen past the lack of a bed frame] [bed frames] separate me from my early retirement. ahahahh so you will retire 15 minutes earlier after a lifetime of sleeping on the floor, what an intelligent trade-off

I remember the experiment a while ago with the ban on political topics on HN. What this site more urgently needs is a ban on any discussion of sex or dating. It’s always pretty sick-making.

There's a de facto ban on discussion of anything even vaguely feminist such as pay differentials, it always gets flagged off the front page immediately. There's very, very few women posters.

Occasionally people post "population decline??" articles, which also suffer from lack of women participants, and deserve to get flagged off.

Re: Keynes on the influence of furniture on love

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Excellent point. And it doesn’t need to be much. If a person is really minimalistic, even a single piece of good-taste furniture would suffice.

Tired: mattress on floor Wired: Eames chair next to mattress on floor. Thank you both for the Wednesday laughs.

Tired: mattress on floor

Wired: futon on tatami, single ukiyo-e print on wall, otherwise clean white room. You need a pitch about the zen of space and the calming influence of Japanese design, but at least now you give off the impression of "weeb" rather than "homeless person in temporary accomodation".

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