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Australia: Sex consent app proposal sparks backlash

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Re: Australia: Sex consent app proposal sparks backlash

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

Being sexually active is particularly dangerous for heterosexual women. It's nearly impossible to prove a rape case in court. Because of this, there has been some groundswell of support for relaxing the burden of proof in rape cases to a standard that might ultimately permit some false accusations to result in wrongful convictions (a horrifically bad idea that would likely be a Pandora's box imo). If you reduce this…

> If you reduce this down to the fundamental tension: either we have to ask women to become dramatically more vigilant and accept some nonzero risk of rape (more or less what we implicitly do already) OR we have to increase the likelihood of wrongful convictions. There's a third way, but perhaps equally unappetizing: record all interactions.

I'm going to assume you mean a video recording, which is the only way to be absolutely certain about what occurred when you have exactly two witnesses who also happen to be the accuser and the accused.

I omitted this possibility for obvious reasons.

Re: Australia: Sex consent app proposal sparks backlash

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Blockchain can fix this! Imagine what smart-consent-contract could do. You set your rules, everybody can see it but you’re in full control and do not have the government in between. Now that’s real consent for the 21st century! (I’m joking, please don’t take it as an actual idea and make it real, the world is already crazy enough as it is)

To take you more seriously than you wanted to be:

A big part of human courtship and flirting is plausible deniability.

Alas, that's exactly the opposite of what your (or any formal) solution would support.

Re: Australia: Sex consent app proposal sparks backlash

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This isn't a serious proposal. It is just a "thought bubble" that the NSW Police Commissioner shared with the media. I reckon he regrets making the suggestion. It appears that nobody thinks it is a good idea except for him. And maybe he's learnt the hard way: nothing wrong with brainstorming and coming up with new ideas, but media interviews are not the right context to do that in.

You’d hope the police commissioner had a better grip on the fundamentals of those crimes though, it’s kind of his job

He's been in the news a bit lately and the stories haven't been very positive. Before this, it was a controversy over the conflict of interest involved in his cushy appointment to the board of directors of one of Australia's major sporting leagues (the Australian Rugby League Commission). I wonder if the less-than-positive press is threatening his continuing in the role of police commissioner. At some point the politicians are going to start to think he is too much of a liability (if they haven't already).

Re: Australia: Sex consent app proposal sparks backlash

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This isn't a serious proposal. It is just a "thought bubble" that the NSW Police Commissioner shared with the media. I reckon he regrets making the suggestion. It appears that nobody thinks it is a good idea except for him. And maybe he's learnt the hard way: nothing wrong with brainstorming and coming up with new ideas, but media interviews are not the right context to do that in.

I think the issue with the suggestion is that it shows that he thinks the more serious issue is the accusations rather than the assaults themselves.

And.. maybe the NSW police could have used a consent app before they started illegally strip searching minors at music festivals.

Re: Australia: Sex consent app proposal sparks backlash

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

Abstinence is the only answer _with an ironclad guarantee_. Fundamentally, sex requires trust and analog communication over a connection either physical or verbal.

Nope, you can still be falsely accused of almost anything.

True. So I advise not having sex with someone if you do not trust their ethics or emotional maturity.

Re: Australia: Sex consent app proposal sparks backlash

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This idea is fully escalated in J. Dukaj's 2001 novel "Black oceans" [1].

> Dukaj extrapolates from the current trend of increasing lawsuits and political correctness: in his world many people willingly live under constant mass surveillance of the New Etiquette (NEti), which registers all their actions so that they couldn't be falsely accused of some "personal offense crime".

That includes people's apartments and them having sex. And of course the NEti records are sealed and secure - theoretically.

[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Charne_oceany

Re: Australia: Sex consent app proposal sparks backlash

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

This is true for all forms of crime. No form of evidence is perfect: eyewitness accounts (human memory is terrible), DNA/fingerprinting/similar (mismatches do occur), circumstantial evidence (obviously not hard proof), confessions (people do dumb things in stressful situations, could be coerced), picture/video (becoming increasingly easy to fake, can be taken out of context). As a result, when looking at rape cases (…

While this is technically true, it's important to note that modern criminal justice systems are designed to minimize the likelihood of false convictions at the expense of increasing the likelihood of false acquittals. It's supposed to be very hard to achieve a conviction. And this feature is essential for social stability. History is replete with examples of disastrous alternatives.

Of course, to be clear this wasn't meant to be a "we can't be perfect so don't bother trying" opinion.

My point was more that while I think the app is kinda dumb for other reasons (am I expected to pull out my phone during sex if revoke consent????), dismissing it as "we can't 100% prove consent" would effectively apply to all evidence of rape and just crimes in general.

Re: Australia: Sex consent app proposal sparks backlash

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

"Change their mind" was never about changing mind afterwards. It's about "I don't like what you're doing, you should stop now" situation even if you were happy up to that point. You misunderstood the idea.

Or perhaps it is you who doesn't understand the word 'abstain'. If your partner changes mind mid-act, of course you stop - that is abstaining from further activity. The point is, this is precisely the kind of confusion to avoid by maintaining abstinence as your primary mindset. It is the only way to be sure: abstain at all costs, even if you were given consent, because that consent is not immutable.

No, I understand abstain and don't care about it in this context. I'm speaking out against the "change their mind after the fact" idea which gets brought up way too often as a possibility. It's disrespectful when discussing consent.

You responded to a message which mentioned changing one's mind in terms of continuous consent, not false rape accusations. These are different things. If you want to talk about false rape accusations, don't call it "change of mind".

Re: Australia: Sex consent app proposal sparks backlash

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

>People can change their mind So, a new era of abstinence is ahead of us. There is simply no other way for anyone to feel safe than to simply abstain. Personally I'm okay with this, but I know a lot of teenagers who grew up thinking sex is an important facet of their identity who will disagree... Frankly, though, I think a more conservative society which treats sex with a lot more respect than the current shit-show,…

>Frankly, though, I think a more conservative society which treats sex with a lot more respect than the current shit-show, is definitely in order. Conservative societies generally had more sex than we do now.

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Re: Australia: Sex consent app proposal sparks backlash

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(Off topic) Am I the only one who thinks the whole world is absolutely crazy right now? Like, in general, nothing seems to make sense anymore. When did I get transported into a parallel reality? I think it was 5 years ago after that LSD trip. Ever since then, things are getting increasingly weird /rant

Oh, so it's your fault! Well get some more acid, and see if you can take us back!
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